The way her fierce anger was, taking away the sunshine, making the day filled with clouds.
is kadar khafa hue wo humse aaj ki, apni chamak k sath suraj bhi le gye,…
andhiyare toh pehle se hi thae, badal ko chod kr kuch aur naye de gaye…
Life is too little sometimes. Sometimes the life become to obsessive with the advent of some discrete souls. The impact they actually have in your life is immense. And at times you might annoy them for no reason which at times may hurt their feelings. It might have happened with you as well when someone is asking you to stop doing something. But out of excitement or to tease or to ignite that persons anger you do certain things. It may hurt them. And It does hurt them.
May be this was the exact situation for someone. Many a times you are in conflict with yourself, you look for some external sources to avoid the break of damns of thoughts and emotions. And without knowing what is going your head you do certain acts that make them feel intolerant. Intolerant because even after their repetitive attempt to tell you that they don’t like certain things for example teasing by distorting their name (take it in general) It might hurt them deep. Though this is one aspect and perception the other may be that the person who is testing the tolerance might really not be knowing the intensity. And you then ruin the building you made.
People then think of you taking their feelings and emotions for granted. Which at times is not true. Some people don’t take things for granted. They respect your feelings and emotions but it’s that very point the thing get brittle and breaks.
Nothing works for the moment when Iron is hot. and you don’t want that Iron to remain hot with you. Else things don’t really go well.
When you explain them, thing they just really don’t care. But God knows how deep you care about them. Yes! They are angry they ought to have that anger because it’s your mistake you took certain things for granted testing their tolerance. But remember no person is so ideal that he will remain intolerant. It’s not ideal to think about how mahatma gandhi propounded his theory of truth and non-violence. or how tolerant he was. Or take the ancient tile when Gautum buddha or Mahavira founded their religion based of it’s principle which led mahatma gandhi to think and follow those path of satyagraha. It’s not ideal in current world. People have emotions, people have respect and you never know what unconscious word you say which might hurt them. Because you may feel that you are just teasing them or just mocking but that one little things has a big impact on them. Not just big impact the repercussion you ought to face when you truly share your feelings with them. And possibly they will take you for granted. Which you don’t want.
Don’t be so eager to test the limit of someone’s tolerance. Person is just like you, he or she may have something that is very dear to him. It’s not the case when one asked to sacrifice his dear child and he was about to but then lamb came in between saving that child. It’s not superficial or story. People have a brittle point on something. Even they appear calm, their calmness may be disastrous. Often you have heard of saying, the silence of coming storms…
Emotions are fragile, you never know which of your act might hurt people deep. So deep that they might hate you. But if you are true with your feelings for them and you’re instinct is strong enough to have respect for them you won’t be disheartened. God has his plans sometimes he wishes to teach how to handle extreme situation in difficult time. which at times we take for granted and out reactionary approach makes matter worse.
The law of attraction will prevail. If You’ve motives to hurt you will not be forgiven. But if you never really meant to hurt them intentionally, you will have to have faith on yourself. The almighty God knows it and you will be forgiven for that. You’d to be true to yourself.
Don’t be dishearten, they are angry because they want you to understand them things for future good. They want your good that is why they tellyou. It’s not just one person they ask but to all. See the good in them, they really care about you growing. They really…. Else people who don’t care don’t get angry on you. They share emotions they have right to be angry and you have right to apologise even if they don’t like someone being apologising.
Limit to one person may not be the limit to other. But let’s have something positive from this as well, let there be clouds in your life, let the sunshine be away for some days months, But one fine day that ray of sunlight will create a path for sure. You just have to be true to yourself, your feelings and emotions. Even if they don’t care after that event, you don’t lose hope, you be true by your side. You stay hopeful. Even if they smashed your hope, just give one more try to hold your emotions every time you fell lost dead or disheartened.
If you’re intentions are not mean and selfish, your feelings are true and pious for them, they will understand you, even the rain doesn’t stop, even the clouds are there for many days, but one fine day, their will be a rainbow… Just wait for that rainbow… Keep fire in you to see that rainbow in person you love….or like… Keep that….!!!
The world is full of intolerance. But still we are tolerant.